Before you share the address
Pause at the point where an old activity provider continues sending forms years after a child leaves. Ask whether the relationship is temporary, whether recovery matters and what would happen if the address became public.
The checklist
- Label each organisation
- Keep emergency routes current
- Archive important records
- Close obsolete activity routes
Write down the purpose beside the credential. A label is small operational memory: it prevents a random-looking address becoming another mystery.
After the first message arrives
Confirm that the route works, that replies behave as expected and that important mail is not being forwarded somewhere unsafe. If the relationship grows, extend the lifetime before it becomes urgent.
Review without over-managing
Give family administration a stable shared context without exposing account-recovery mail. Review on change—not every day. Critical safeguarding and medical contacts must remain dependable and monitored.
Give the next relationship its own route.
Create an MXDuck alias